How do you structure silence…?

I came across a quote by Daniel Barenboim, the renowned pianist: “…it is so disruptive when an enthusiastic audience applauds before the final sound has died away, because there is one last moment of expressivity, which is precisely the relationship between the end of the sound and the beginning of the silence that follows. In this respect music is a mirror of life, because both start and end in nothing”.
As a communicator, you feel under constant pressure to fill silence with words and messages.
Silence often terrifies us….We dread silence during presentations because we think it can only mean two things: either we have forgotten what to say or that the audience is not interested and is therefore not asking questions.
We all live under the tyranny of words until something happens…
It was my coaching training that made me realise the power of silence.
Silence is an essential component of any successful coaching session… Only by building in silence can issues be explored in depth…. Real break-throughs only happen after powerful moments of silence…
So how do we apply this to communications?
The answer might be that we just need to be brave and resist the urge to structure every minute of our presentations, sessions, pitches, etc.
Another quote by Barenboim got me thinking: “I will … attempt the impossible and try to draw some connections between the inexpressible content of music and the inexpressible content of life”.
Communicators do the same. We are brokers of passions. We help people express ideas and we get audiences excited about them.
Is silence the secret ingredient we need to use to turn ideas into reality?
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